Archive for the ‘Self-Help’ Category

Why Are We Here?

Sunday, July 19th, 2015

Only you can answer that, for all the answers are within you. All you have to do is to be still and take the time to listen.

For me, I believe we are not here to contemplate, but to “experience.” That is why we came here. We can contemplate on the other side. This is our “playing field” .If we sit on a rock all day humming we are missing out on all the interaction that this planet offers. As Dr. Wayne Dyer so aptly put it, “If we knew who was walking with us at any given moment, we would never be afraid again.” In short we are not alone. When we venture out and into life we doing so with guidance, if we choose to listen. Every encounter, every challenge is a learning experience. If we wake up and are breathing, we still have “stuff” to experience. Continue Reading


Monday, December 31st, 2012

“But I thought that you thought…” and so goes the interchange between millions of us on this planet over and over again, because we “mis-interpreted” or “mis-understood” in The first place. But take heart, it is not always our fault. Sometimes we’re “guided” down the path of confusion by tradition, sayings, and even society. Continue Reading

Negative Thoughts

Monday, December 31st, 2012

Now more than ever, it is important for us to realize that WE are in control of our thoughts. Thoughts don’t just “happen” to us. They actually are our “creation”. Since media, news, magazines, etc. seem to be focusing more and more on what’s “wrong” with our economy, health system, society, etc…, it is no wonder that if we “allow” it, our thoughts tend to run through the same negative filter.  Unfortunately, once we go down that road we very quickly tend to personalize it and “bring it home” creating a series of “what’s wrong with me, my family, my job, my life…” and since we always find what we look for…low and behold, we get some powerful negative thoughts that if we allow it, can virtually destroy our confidence, our health and ultimately…our life. Continue Reading


Monday, December 31st, 2012

Know this. No one else possesses your exact blend of skills, mannerisms, style, talent, etc. Now follow me on this…of all the billions of people on this planet…there has never been, in the past, now, or in the future…another human being exactly like you! This doesn’t make you “weird or odd”…it makes you extremely SPECIAL!

There is no such thing as an insignificant Human Being! It simply doesn’t exist. Continue Reading


Monday, May 24th, 2010

More and more in our society people are developing negative vocabularies and then they wonder why they aren’t successful. In the first place, based on scientific studies done in the sixties, we have learned that the sub-conscious is the “programming aspect” of our being. We know also that it is “voice sensitive”, specific to our own voice…in other words, what we say with our mouth, goes in our ears and “programs” us. Each time we say things like “I won’t…” or “I didn’t” or “I can’t”, we are placing limits on ourselves, when, in point of fact, we are limitless! Continue Reading